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Barrington Brennen
Published On:Monday, October 05, 2009
By TANEKA THOMPSON
Tribune Staff Reporter
tthompson@tribunemedia.net
CORPORAL punishment, unless administered with a psychological component, is useless and should be eliminated from the school system, a local family therapist said.
Barrington Brennen, a minister and nationally certified psychologist in the United States, said that often those persons administering corporal punishment are taking the easy way out by not sitting down and explaining to young people what they have done wrong.
"From a research prospective we know that corporal punishment may have a positive effect on a person but the punishment must also involve a psychological aspect or emotional involvement. I don't believe that corporal punishment is necessary and secondly corporal punishment is never effective in the long term without mental punishment. In the old days, parents sat down with their children and explained the wrong that they did and the children sometimes had to apologise before they were physically punished.
"Thirdly, if you are physically punishing a child at the age of 16 for the same thing that you are doing (for a child) at age 9 you have failed -- that's including the school system. Physical punishment should end by the time the child starts the teen years and (a disciplinarian) should by then have included techniques that are more powerful," Mr Brennen told The Tribune. He added that those who subscribe to the Christian ideology of "spare the rod spoil the child" often don't realise that effective discipline involves more than just spanking a child.
"In the Bible the word obey is used over 1,100 times, over 900 times the Hebrew translation of obey is to hear -- meaning that it implies that obedience involves teaching and instruction.
"It's hearing and transferring what you hear into workable models of life," he said, adding that whenever physical punishment left behind bruises visible a day later it crossed the line into abuse.
Violence
He also added that many people believe that violence in the public school system escalated when government took away teacher's rights of administering physical punishment in the classrooms.
"But that is not the problem, the problem is the government didn't teach the teachers how to provide effective discipline without corporal punishment," said Mr Brennen. "Teachers felt disarmed, they felt like something was taken from them because they had no other skill to provide punishment.
"When a teacher physically punishes a disobedient child, you have to ask is that child coming from a disciplined environment?
"What is that child going to learn from this, can he reason effectively, can he use this incident as a teaching moment and not a reactionary moment?
"Too many of our children are blamed and ashamed in the community so when they get hit in the class, it's only reinforcing that anger with them."
According to the Ministry of Education, corporal punishment is a legal form of disciple in public schools but only when carried out by a senior mistress, senior master, principal or vice-principal.
About two weeks ago, a 15-year-old C I Gibson student claimed she was hit by a school official with a metal rod wrapped in black tape and left with black and blue bruises on her right arm and buttocks. Education Minister Carl Bethel said his ministry was investigating the claim.
Posted By: Spank em in dey mouth On: 2/9/2012
Title: BRUH YOU NEED TO GET BACK ON DA PLANE
DE I DEM BEEN IN DUH STATES TOO LONG..YA NEX ARTICLE IS TAKE CHRIST OUTTA CHRISTMAS AND PRAYER OUTTA DA CLASS. MA BWOY YOU NEED TO ROLL OUT FOR I FORGET YOU GRADUATE AND PICK ONE TAMARIND SWITCH FOR YOU
Posted By: Nya Nya Look Hyur On: 2/2/2012
Title:
NYA NYa LOOK HYUR! There are various other methods ( more effective methods ) of punishment than simply beating a child. Isolation does wonders for the psyche. Na before ya raise yinna hand to beat yinna kids, always remember, ya kids ain ga be kids furevahhhhhhhhh and dey ga growwwwwwww like a treeeee and when that tree big enough dem hits start to hurt ya hand!
Posted By: I jus sayin On: 2/1/2012
Title: Funny
This is sooooo hilarious..... Corporal Punishment.... lol.
These children today get away with far too much! Just my opinion.
My brother and I got spanked as a children (alot) and we turned out just fine. However we didn't get spanked for nothing. Whenever we did something wrong our parents would tell us why we were getting spanked (while getting spanked) and it put alot of things in perspective. We weren't allowed to play around in public places (food stores, banks, clinics, or anywhere we could damage things), we weren't allowed to have EVERYTHING our eyes set on and we knew what the word NO meant.
So... really this is a silly topic.
Posted By: The Truth SD On: 1/12/2012
Title: "Spear the Rod"
As guardians and Parents of the children of today, we must realize that what we see is not what we get, everything must and should be evaluated, Hence the Psychologist job.
We is the biblical context are the shepherds for our kids. JESUS was also a shepherd for us. Have you ever heard of a story where the shepherd hit the sheep with their rod? No it was because the purpose of the rod was to lead and direct them never in a hurting manner. Beating envelopes hate within a person and when we realize it sometimes it is to late. we see them killing themselves or others. while beating that child may bring you satisfaction you must think is that really when you want. the answer should be no, because you want a long term affect where the child can learn and advance into a better adult not hold in rage and anger and think that hostility is the way life should be!
Posted By: ALBURY On: 12/10/2011
Title: misplaced blame
sounds like teachers need to be better
"screened" before being allowed the awesome responsibility to teach children. children do require discipline, it could save their life someday! However, there is a HUGE difference between discipline and beating. physical punishment, if carried out lovingly, is very effective. All this talk I hear and read of "beating' and "switching" a child disturbs me.
Posted By: Mrs. Albury On: 11/16/2011
Title: end corporal punishment
I definitely think he needs his head read. Spare the rod - spoil the child!
Posted By: Swagjack On: 9/28/2011
Title: Corporal Punishment ain't changing nothing
Corporal punishment isnt making any change in these schools, the children come to expect it and don't fear it anymore. I've seen kids beaten in school for doing something andbthen they'll go right back and do it again. The physical punishment is just conditioning these kids towards using violence to solve problems, and anybody who thinks it isnt violence or abuse then theyre just plain ignorant. Spare the rod and spoil the child my ass, the Bahamas needs to stop using the Bible for excuses for everything we do and actually find some morals in this world.
Posted By: C. Mackey On: 9/23/2011
Title: it has gotten worst
School has just opened and the schools are out of control now, becuase parents know that there children are rude and they are looking for money, please check the Penal Code 110, where Coroporal Punishment is still legal in the Bahamas, and not in America and if you do your research, there are some states in the US where Coropral Punishment is still legal, Abuse is when you accessively keep hitting a child over and over.
You psychologist need to have a look at your heads first and yourpast then it might be clear why you became psycholigist, it people like you all how have everyone heads screwed up, being over analytic.
In your opinion when these persons kill, and Steal, why the hell you all don't sit with them and tell them to write why they did what they did, and then let them go becasue they realize it was wrong. Would you live next to them?????????????????? Yes forgiveness is still here but just leik every human sins God will deal with us, so here is sin which now need to be ousted from society becuae their behaviour is not acceptable, without the use of coroporal punishment.
take one month in the worst school in the country and let the children believe you there as a teacher and not to do research, you all need to wake up, but we watch it on TV every Night. WOW!!!!
Posted By: Observer On: 9/2/2011
Title: Surprised of all the hate..
Any kind of punishment that comes in physical form is just promoting physical behavior as solutions to problems.
In psychology it is well known that broken people carry on broken behavior, easily from generation to generation. Maybe this way of living is brought on from a not too distant pain in Bahamian peoples history. In more developed countries around the world, corporal punishment is forbidden, both in school and in the home. In these more developed countries, they have realized that there are other solutions to discipline a child.
Something to think about.
I also cant see why all these "godly" people here are promoting so much violence, basing it on bible talk. Can you not distinguish whats good from bad without looking in a book that has been written, rewritten and then rewritten over how long period of time? There is plenty good, but you should seek for the bigger picture while studying religion and life.
Be bigger - Be smarter
Posted By: Teech On: 8/17/2011
Title: Corporal punishmenl out the school
I believe , taking corporal punishment out of the school would be a serious misstake. If we back track, the record will show that there was a decrease in our grade point average also an increase in our crime rate from the time we took the rod from the teachers/Administrators.What we have now is "well they ( teacher,school) can't do me nothing so I don't have to do any work, come to class or even work in class. I don't have to obey the rules". However when the rules are broken the child is warned and then suspended.The parents are told the child is too disrubtive and have to leave the school.Because no other school want to take the child,he/she is now out of school and into mischif, hence we are plaged with housebreaking ,fights, thef, pregnancy and the likes. I know that there are some teachers who are not trained to administer corporal punishment,thus a correction officer,the vice-principle or even a police officer station at the school can help in this area. I also believe that there are other measures which can be taken before corporal punishment is administered or suspention such as, counciling, cleaning school yard/class and or painting.The Bible says" if we spare the rod we spoil the child and a child left unpunished/corrected will bring shame to his perants". Let me add that our court system is too slow, when a person is found guilty the punishment should be administered swiftly because,we become soft and punishment is ether not ministered or does not fit the crime. Which will bring us to this point when the child becomes an adult. Parents/Teachers we can't say we love them to the point where wipping them when needed is a no no,you don't love them at all. Think on these. things.
Posted By: Sid On: 8/7/2011
Title: Barrington Brennen
Barrington Brennen doesnt play with a full deck.He lives in perfect world
Posted By: Ol Bahamas On: 7/25/2011
Title: PSYCHOLOGISTS ARE NOT IN THE CLASSROOM
Stop bein American and BEAT DESE CHIRREN!!! We are so influenced by the American culture. Our country was founded on cut hip-it's a tradition! The kind of children stressin these teachers today need some good ol fashion beatin. But balance it with love and understanding too. Keep CP in schools but teach parents and educators the proper way to discipline-balance it with God's love!
Posted By: C. Mackey On: 7/13/2011
Title: A Male Teacher
Please its people like you all who have the Bahamas in this mess, get in one of these schools for a week then you can talk
Posted By: MASTER T On: 6/3/2011
Title: OBVIOUSLY
LOOK OBVIOUSLY A SLOW DAY FOR NEWS. WELL NOT REALLY. US DOLLAR BLOWING BIG TIME AND YOU ALL STILL PEGGED TO IT, BUT HEY LETS TALK ABOUT "WE BEATING OUR CHILLIN TOO MUCH" :-)
SOME OF THE COMMENTS HERE SO LONG AND DRY I HAD TO TURN ON MY HUMIDIFIER AND TAKE COUPLE ESPRESSO JUST TO SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM TO MAKE THIS POST.
LOOK ITS SIMPLE:
1. THE CHILLIN DEM GOT BAD UP BRINGING
2. THE PARENTS DONT CARE
3. THE CHILLIN DONT CARE CUZ THE GOV KILLING BUSINESS AND NO JOB
4. PRICE OF THE 2pc SNACK GOING UP
5. DA RAPPERS DEM SAY DONT NEED EDUCATION WHEN YA OWN A GLOCK
NOW FOR ME I PERSONALLY JUST DONT TRUST PEOPLE WITH HAIR LOOKING THAT PREEN UP AND TIDY, BUT THATS ME
- MASTER T
Posted By: love to read On: 5/18/2011
Title: Reading Articles
I would advise that you have to do every thing to bring peace in the country if corporal punishment is needed then do it. To many of our people are going astray and doing what they feel they can get away with. In the bible it says Train up a child in the way they should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. Continue to look for ways to bring confort and peace in this hurting world.
Posted By: Eddie Miller On: 5/1/2011
Title: Mr
To my mind corporal punishment has caused a lot of mental illness (sometimes brought about by physical illness) in children. In 1985 STOPP (society of Teachers Opposed to Physical Punishment) stated that corporal punishment could cause arthritis (BasicFacts About Corporal Punishment).
Adelle Davis tells us this in Lets Get Well:
"It is now generally accepted that severe crippling arthritis is a psychosomatic illness resulting largely from unconscious accumulated anger" (for example, the beaten pupil is not allowed to express his anger to the teacher beating him or her).
Dr Hans Seyle found that emotional stress (corporal punishment is very stressful) and harm to soft tissues produced by hitting and so on can cause calcium to be laid down in the soft tissues of the body of animals. Dr Seyle produced the counterparts of such human diseases as arthritis and hardening of the arteries in this manner.”
I received the expert advice a while ago - see below:
Mr. Miller, I must admit that I am certainly not an expert on Corporal punishment and its effects in regards to trauma in the subcutaneous tissues. However, in researching the issue of soft tissue calcification, there would certainly seem to be many correlations to the results of corporal punishment and the results of trauma from injury to the tissues. It is well known that calcifications can develop in the muscle tissues from bleeds induced by trauma such as sports and injury. The healing process can result in calcifications in the muscle and soft tissues resulting in decreased strength and pain. It would seem reasonable to me that an injury induced by trauma from a blow delivered for corporal punishment purposes could also result in calcification to the tissues damaged. There are no studies that I was able to find that specifically targeted the injuries that result from corporal punishment.
Douglas S. Denham, DO, CPI
Medical Director
Clinical Trials of Texas, Inc.
Posted By: A. Wilson On: 4/18/2011
Title: Its mentioned in the Bible
I am an educator in the public system and it is very difficult to teach in some classes without raising my blood pressure literally. We are faced with teaching students who are apart of a society that uses corporal punishment in some homes. We are also a 'Christian Nation' and the Bible mentions that if the rod is not used then we spoil the child. Some students are 'unteachable' without some form of corporal punishment. Personally, I have put my ruler down since 2002 and was forced to find other methods. However, most times these pose stress and anxiety. Teachers need
Dr. Brennen to help some of us with coping with these students when corporal punishment is not an option. These school campuses are becoming like a war Zone .... Its a very stressful job
Posted By: Miss P. On: 3/19/2011
Title: YES
Is corporal punishment painful? YES
Is it humiliating? YES
Therefore is a child does not want to endure any of the above he/she would abstain from behaviour that warrants such punishment. CP should not be confused with abuse, abuse is unwarranted, excessive, and not done as a form of correction. However, as an educator I am of the view that CP is an effective means of discipline in schools when administered by a mature individual, after other means of punishment have been exhausted. Classroom teachers face a terrible fate if it is determined that a child has been disciplined in an inappropriate manner. So, although there have been cases where the punishment was deemed extreme we must look at the whole picture and realise that CP does have its place in our classrooms here in The Bahamas. I only wish Mr. Brennen could conduct some research here and present case studies that support what he says in this article so teachers can also try some of the methods/strategies he thinks are appropriate.
Posted By: JJSherman On: 2/19/2011
Title: Barrington Speak The Truth
Barrington you are indeed speaking the truth about corporal punishment, what it does to a person, is it strips them of who and what God intended them to be, getting in the school and at home is a way that breaks down a person moral to nothing.
I myself have lived through so much abuse, and today I am 56 will be 57 in 3 months, I have a big issue with trust, as a younger woman I had so much rage,but thanks to a loving Teacher Mr. Stubbs God rest his soul, I would of been dead myself or in jail.
Love don't hurt, and teaching a child should not come with pain either. The Bible says not to spear the rod or spoil the child is taken out of content, and the way that I was beaten as a child, has me scared today.
My prayers for Bahamas is for Bahamians to educate themselves in how to love and listen, most Bahamians don't listen, when you bring something up that has happened in the past they want to say forget the past.
In the Bahamas there is nothing but the past, for as I can tell that no one is going forward, eveyone is still in the Twilight Zone.
Posted By: Katarina Mountain On: 2/16/2011
Title: Memories from 1969
I have never actually recovered feeling anger about Miss Hubbard's painful slapping fits. If I could meet that English woman now I would like to ask her why she found it necessary to so cruelly mercilessly persecuted someone who was already traumatised in a completely new country. She married a Curry. If you know her, and she is still alive, do give her my regards. She could have been an angel but instead, as far as I was concerned she was a demon and a terrible teacher to boot. At 9 years old I recall contemplating suicide. I have never been more miserable before or since in my life. Corporal punishment should be banned in home and school. I am a parent and a teacher and there are other more effective means of exercising power and control. If you haven't got the intelligence to understand this, you should be neither parent nor teacher.
Posted By: MARTIN LUTHOR KING (mispell intended) On: 2/12/2011
Title: With some old people and some highly Educated or somewhat educated people is not always Wisdom.
with some old people and some highly Educated or somewhat educated people is not always Wisdom.
some highly Educated people are highly Educated FOOLS.
Posted By: Yulisa On: 1/29/2011
Title:
I would like for this psychologist or whatever he calls himself to spend a day in some of these classroms and then maybe he'll have a different perspective. I'll have him know that 99.9% of the time corporal punishment is the last resort after you've talked and talked and talked and talked.... and tried other methods. The teaching profession has gone to the dogs!!!. Teachers no longer have any authority, the kids know this and they use it to their advantage. That's why I'm on my way out!
Posted By: Tamrind Switch On: 1/13/2011
Title: Who is this Jerk
America is the most pervert and disgusting country in the world. Based on their way of giving children too much power he needs to show how that improved on childrens ability to accept discipline. All they do is make excuses why kids are out of order parents abuse. Corporal Punishment is still good and always will. Our society only gets worse the more we Americanize. Once again he needs to prove how talking plenty made it better in America bet he can't produce a good example.
Posted By: Louis Curry On: 12/29/2010
Title: Corporal punishment
I think that most of the old dinasaur educators need to be retrained in their class management techniques. This might possible help prevent the physical abuse that most disruptive behavior students are diwsplaying. Moreover, students tend to react the violence experiences they encounter in real life. Only my personal view
Posted By: L.M.Pinder On: 12/28/2010
Title: Corporal Punishment in School
Corporal punishment SHOULD be administered. That is why the youth of today has lost all sense of what is right and wrong. Parents let their children run wild because they are to busy doing their own thing, the only place that they can get taught a bit of decency is in the classroom.
Posted By: tired of this mess On: 12/16/2010
Title: keep corporal punishment in schools since bahamian immature parents are not doing it properly and lovingly.
keep corporal punishment in schools since bahamian immature parents are not doing it properly and lovingly.
Posted By: Roger Williams On: 12/12/2010
Title: The Case for Corporal Punishment in the Bahamas
Let's investigate the concept of "dancing in sand", or "sand-dancing".
Its difficult ... most of the time ... but Barrington seems to have perfected the artform!
And, if we were tempted to be momentarily fooled by Mr. Brennen's apparently "reasoned' and "reasonable" analysis of corporal punishment, then we would have been brought back to Earth with the words '... He added that those who subscribe to the Christian ideology of "spare the rod spoil the child" often don't realise that effective discipline involves more than just spanking a child... ".
Apart from the intellectual effrontery that the statement above represents ... in that it perpetuates a secular view of Christians as "uninformed" and the Bible as "suspect" ... it is also generously dismissive of the simple fact that millions of teachers and parents worldwide ALWAYS use corporal punishment as a last resort to correct disruptive behaviour that can have negative consequences on a child's development (or that of his peers or family members). To argue otherwise would be ... unwise!
Bahamians will be pleased to note that outstanding secular research corroborates the Biblical position on corporal punishment being a credible part of a range of disciplinary measures at home or in the school.
We have addressed the initial evidence in the online article "The Case for Corporal Punishment in Guyana II" ... it surely has relevance for the Bahamas experience!
Happy reading!!
Posted By: chris richmond On: 12/9/2010
Title: Been around a while
When I was at school, which admittedly was some time ago, the only deterent that influenced my behaviour was fear of being caned. Not only would that be painful, but when I got home and admitted to my parents what had happened I would in all likelihood get a further dose. I have grown up to be a successful professional and (I hope) a contributor to our society. Since the western world decided that not only was corporal punishment inappropriate and neither was learning proper social behaviour in a family environment, our society has been on a slippery downward slope as can be demonstrated by the increases in crime etc. It is time we started to bring back some standards into our childrens' lives both in school and at home!!
Posted By: dee242 On: 11/8/2010
Title: copral punishmen
i am 13 this guy is right wehn my mom dad or teacher beats me and instead of doing right it only makes you more angrier and make u want to do more wrong
Posted By: Just Do Right On: 10/21/2010
Title: When you do wrong you get punished, simple.
To all the Yellow Bellied liberal cowards out there in Bahama land.
Giving detention to students for wrong behavior doesn't always work.
When I was in high school we slept in detention after writing lines. No big deal.
Putting criminals to life imprisonment is very expensive detention.
When you do wrong you get punished, simple.
Posted By: A Real father On: 10/21/2010
Title: Government parenting dont work. But real Parenting by mature fathers and mothers do work.
So no beating in schools. Then next you all people want Government to stop me from beating or spanking my child like the United states?
Man you all people grow a backbone or 2 basketballs. Government parenting dont work. But real Parenting by mature fathers and mothers do work.
Posted By: olemon On: 10/17/2010
Title: Sorry if you liked getting beaten, I didnt !!
Thats right. I didnt like getting beaten. Thats right, I said it and Im brave enough to admit that it was wrong. Nevertheless, I love my parents with all my heart and I know that they meant me well.
It seems hypocritical to call "abuse" justifiable discipline. How do you differentiate between the two? and when is the administration of physical pain ever justified?
In adult situations even the wrong words (e.g. threats) can land you in jail !! Corporal punishment is barbaric and further, no one appreciates it when they are the recipient. Let's be realistic, the theory that says "if you cant hear, you will feel" doesent take into consideration that if a child cant hear, that child should see a ear doctor. In our world of many languages, beating isn't an accredited language. But there is one language everybody on the planet understands, it is called "Love"
Posted By: stichy On: 8/27/2010
Title: CP is a GREAT motivation to DO BETTER
i agree that cp should stay in the schools but used in moderation. i graduated high school in 2003 an by the time i got in jr school i got trained well enough AT HOME so that when i was a teenager i knew right from wrong and had disciple. my mother when i was younger surely didnt spare the rod. i got beatings of course after a few warnings of "gal if you can't hear ya ga feel!!" and of couser after not heeding the warnings i got beatings and while she beat me she explained why i got beating sometimes there was a spank for every word. so it was a gaurantee that i knew why i was getting a beating and was sure not to make that mistake again at home school and anywhere. beatings surely didnt kill me. i graduated jr. high, high school and also college and all with top honors never got in problems (well drastic problems) at either of the schools. cp is ONLY a problem when the person instituting the cp goes overboard. beatings didnt kill me nor did the pain form the beatings last forever....however the lessons i've learnt from receiving those beatings stuck with me forever and propelled me to the successes i have achieved and will be continuing to achieve in the future.
Posted By: lam On: 8/2/2010
Title: BEATING IS WEAK AND DESPERATE
the bible? is this to be our ONLY source of wisdom? we must close our eyes and ears and minds to the ever mounting evidence that beating children, shaming and humiliating them is a desperate act, useful only to those too weak or dumb to come up with an alternative? what about your god-given brains, people?
there's blasphemy and disgrace in refusing to progress and learn by using the tools your god endowed you with.
Posted By: JOE On: 7/28/2010
Title: RESPONSE
WHY DON'T YOU JUST GO BACK TO THAT GOD FORSAKEN NATION WHO FILL YOUR HEAD WITH THAT JUNK. GOD SAY BEAT UM WHEN THEY WRONG SO YOU AND AMERICA DEM MUSSY CHEIF GOD EH?. MUSSY!
Posted By: JOE On: 7/28/2010
Title: CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
STOP FOLLWING AMERICA PLEASE . THE BIBLE SAYS IF YOU SPARE THE ROD YOU SPOIL THE CHILD. I SAY USE IT SCHOOL TELL THE PARENTS YOU DONE IT ,AND ENCOURAGE THEM TO GIVE IT AGAIN AT HOME THATS WHAT MADE ME WHAT I AM TODAY. IT DID NOT KILL ME IT STEER ME IN PATHS OF RIGHTEOUSNESS, NOT CRIMINALITY. I DARE THE PERSON TELL ME I CAN'T PUNISH MY CHILDREN.
Posted By: Learning Revenge On: 7/25/2010
Title: Teaching our children by example.
This is not the 1950's. Like it or not, what corporal punishment in the schools does is CERTAINLY "educate" the victims. What happens to an adult that takes offense at a neighbor and uses "corporal punishment" on him? We call it "assault" and put the "punisher" in gaol. But in the schools, the children are taught that it is proper to punish another physically in response to an offense. And the child will certainly learn his lesson well. He will grow to use his "education" against others just as he learned in school. "But the teacher TOLD me that if someone breaks the rules, it's okay to beat them!" And we wonder why today's youth are dropping out of school in favor of joining a gang for protection. What do you think they perceive the need protection against? The children in the 21st century are NOT the same as the children of the 1950's. There are new and different pressures, moral norms, and protective alternatives (gangs and personal retaliation) that simply were not available or accepted back in the "good old days." Possibly take a look at faculty assaults by students in 2000-2009 vs. the same offense in 1950-1959. The "good olde days" have come and gone forever. Learn and progress, or be a "teacher of 40 years" that does not have the respect of his students, so he doesn't know any better way of insuring behavior other than assaulting a minor.
Posted By: Well Disciplined Lady On: 6/28/2010
Title: Everything in Moderation, especially Discipline
I can see this issue from all sides. Yes, there are some parents that abuse disciplinary methods. Some may say that this is the same for our school system. However, [rude/rebellious] students are not the way they are because the Principal or Senior Master cuts their hip for being disgusting. They are that way because their parents failed to properly teach them the way that they ought to go, and properly discipline them.
If parents did their jobs, there would be no need for canes and paddles in schools. So, because that is not the case, corporal punishment in schools is very much neccessary. It is not meant to hurt the child psychologically or scar them physically. It is meant to instill fear in them. Yes, I said fear! When they think about slapping another child, or stealing from someone, they SHOULD think about Mr. Principal notonly whipping them, but also chewing their ears off with a good, long lecture.
Beating is the physical ramifications of wrong doing, and when done in the correct form, it is very effective. Yes, some children do not respond to beating. That simply means that one must find which form of discipline effectively reaches that child. Beating is not meant for every child. Some children fold up and apologize non-stop by simply hearing the word "belt". Those parents who have a problem with corporal punishment needs to simply find a nice little private school for their child, that has a very LOW punishment, and very high tolerance levels to send their child to who shares the same views.
I can guarantee you that if there a few rotten kids in the bunch, that parent will catch HELL once that child is old enough to talk back to them and rebel. Spare the rod, spoil the child. Abuse is real, yes. However, abuse can be verbal, psychological, emotional....My parents did not spare the rod with me. Atleast my father did not. Whevever I did something wrong which was not often for obvious reasons, I got my backside torn up! And after I calmed down, he would always come back and sit with me and explain exactly why he did what he did. I always understood.
For that reason, I never got beaten for the same thing twice. My mother was physically abused as a child, therefore, she preferred not to hit us, especially when she was angry. However, her tongue lashings were sever and never ending. I am now 21, and to this day, I would rather my father slap the hell out of me for something, than to have my mother talk my ears off for a few days about that same thing.
Ps. My father has been public high school principal/administrator for over 30 years, and he is well known for his cane. However, to this day, grown men come up to him on the streets, in the banks, in the mall, just to thank him for his disciplining them when they were his students. He never spared the rod, he still does not. However, his is not only a disciplinarian, he is a mentor. He shows you the error of your ways, and works with you to be a better person. He loves his "bad boys" and "bad girls" as he so 'affectionately' refers to them, for he knows how to get through to them. And those same bad boys come back to thank him decades later for saving their lives and making them good men and women, and even better parents. The belt/cane made my father & my uncle the men they are (and were) today, and the wrong kind of beating made my mother the woman who she is today as well. She uses less conventional methods to get her point accross, even though she still overdoes it due to her upbringing. And, those relatives of mine who were not beaten as kids, are OBVIOUSLY going through harsher life lessons; most involving pride, vanity, and always wanting to have their own way.
Posted By: GARY MERVYN MENEELY. On: 6/22/2010
Title: MR.
DEAR SIR/MADAM,
I WOULD JUST LIKE TO EXPRESS CLEARLY,MY VIEWS,OPINIONS,THOUGHTS,FEELINGS
ABOUT THIS PARTICULAR-OLD-METHOD/FORM OF PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE,
USED OR ADMINISTERED IN SCHOOLS AND IN THE HOME ON MANY
SCHOOLBOYS/SCHOOLGIRLS,PARTICULARLY THROUGHT DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE
UNITED STATES OF AMERICA AND IT'S OVERSEAS-DEPENDENCIES,TODAY.IT,SHOULD,HOWEVER,BE COMPLETELY,TOTALLY,UTTERLY,
BANNED,ABOLISHED,BANISHED,ERADICATED,ELIMINATED,STAMPTED-OUT ALTOGETHER.IT,HOWEVER,SENDS OUT COMPLETELY AND ENTIRELY THE"WRONG-MESSAGE",TO MANY SCHOOLBOYS AND SCHOOLGIRLS THROUGHOUT THE COUNTRY AS A
WHOLE.IT IS,WHOLEHEARTEDLY,A VIOLATION OF THE"CIVIL-AND-HUMAN-RIGHTS"FOR
ANY SCHOOLCHILD,NO MATTER WHO THEY ACTUALLY ARE.IT IS BETTER IN THE LONG-RUN OR LONG-TERM TO SIT DOWN AND TALK THE MATTER OVER,WHATEVER THE CASE
MAY BE,E.T.C..I,MYSELF,HOWEVER,ALWAYS,HAVE BEEN,TOTALLY AND DEAD-AGAINST THE IDEA MYSELF.I,DO,MYSELF,THROUGHLY,OBJECT,OPPOSE,DISAGREE,CONDEMN,DON'T CONDONE AND DISSAPROVE OF,THIS METHOD/FORM OF PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE USED,
IN OR ADMINISTERED IN ELEMENTARY/MIDDLE AND HIGH-SCHOOLS,THROUGHOUT THE
COUNTRY.THERE ARE,HOWEVER,FAR AND MUCH-BETTER,FAIRER ,SUPERIOR AND WORKABLE,JUST,WAYS,FORMS,
OPTIONS,CHOICES,NON-VIOLENT-METHODS AND ALTERNATIVES,RATHER THAN THE THREAT OF CORPORAL-PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE.IT IS,HOWEVER,A DANGEROUS OLD-
PRACTICE,AND CAN LEAD TO SEXUAL-ABUSE/ASSAULT,GREVIOUS-BODILY-HARM,ACTUAL-BODILY-HARM,WHICH ARE VERY-SERIOUS-OFFENCES/CRIMES.IT IS,ON THE OTHER HAND,A VERY-DEGRADING,DICOURAGING,HUMILIATING,BARBARIC,SADISTIC,CRUEL,HARSH-FORM OF PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE,AND SHOULD BE MADE TO BECOME A THING OF THE PAST.I AM,
VERY,VERY,CONCERNED MYSELF,PERSONALLY,ABOUT PROTECTING THE"HUMAN-AND-CIVIL-RIGHTS"AND"DIGNITY "OF ANY SCHOOLCHILDREN,CONCERNED,IN GENERAL,NO MATTER WHO THEY ACTUALLY ARE.IT IS,A CONTRAVENTION AND INFRINGEMENT OF THEIR OWN "HUMAN-RIGHTS" AND CIVIL-LIBERTIES,OVERALL.
HOWEVER,NOT GOOD FOR THEM AT ALL,TO BE TREATED IN THIS WAY,TO BE ACTUALLY HIT,WHIPPED, FLOGGED,BEATEN,BELTED,TORTURED,WHACKED,WALLOPED,CHASTISED,PENALISED OR
PUNISHED IN THIS WAY.ITIS,ALSO,HOWEVER,PSYCHOLOGICALLY-DAMAGING,TO THEIR
IMAGE,DIGNITY,SELF-CONFIDENCE,SELF-RESPECT,SELF-BELIEF,SELF-ESTEEM,REPUTATION.IT CAN,SOMETIMES RESULT IN COMMITTING-SUICIDE OR DEATH,NOT TO MENTION THE PHYSICAL-INJURY,BRUISING,E.T.C.,ESPECIALLY ON THE ARM,HAND,THIGHS AND BUTTOCKS.THRE SHOULD BE A NEW FEDERAL-LAW PASSED,IN WASHINGTON-DISTRICT-OF-COLUMBIA,THE UNITED-STATES-
CAPITAL,THROUGH THE SUPREME COURT OF LAW,BANNING,ABOLISHING,OUTLAWING,BANISHING,ERADICATING IT ALTOGETHER,FOR THE FUTURE-TIMES AND YEARS TO COME.THIS APPLIES,HOWEVER,TO MANY MILLIONS OF SCHOOLGIRLS/SCHOOLBOYS THROUGHOUT THE COUNTRY,FORM COAST TO COAST IN ALL OF THE FIFTY-STATES,COMBINED.
THE PRACTICE,HOWEVER,OF PADDILING,IS NOW IILEGAL IN SOME STATES,BUT NOT COMPLETELY IN OTHERS.HOWEVER,THE PHYSICAL AND MENTAL-BREAKDOWN,IT CAN CAUSE,AND ALSO THE SORROW,UPSET, PAIN,AGONY,GRIEF,FRUSTRATION,HEARTACHE,DISCORD,HARDSHIP,ADVERSITY,ANGER,
ARGUMENTS,SUFFERING THAT IT CAUSES,IN FAMILIES,ESPECIALLY AT HOME,IS NOT BY ANY WAY,CONJUCIVE OR GOOD FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE AND HARMONY.ITALSO CAN
MAKE YOUNGSTERS TURN REBELLIOUS,REVENGEFUL,RESENTFUL,BITTER AND VIOLENT.
THERE IS NO EXCUSE,HOWEVER, FOR IT ALL,WHATSOEVER,FOR THIS METHOD/FORM OF PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE.I,AM HOWEVER,WAGING-WAR AND PROTESTING AGAINST
THE PRACTICE OF CORPORAL-PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE.THERE SHOULD BE A COMPLETE
"ZERO-TOLERANCE"-POLICY,CONCERNING THIS AGE-OLD-METHOD/FORM OR PRACTICE,
THROUGHOUT THE COUNTRY AS A WHOLE,USED OR ADMINISTERED IN ANY ELEMENTARY,MIDDLE OR HIGH-SCHOOL AND PRIVATE-SCHOOLS.IT'S,DISADVANTAGES,HOWEVER DO,FAR OUTWEIGH THE ADVANTAGES.
IT CAN,HOWEVER,MAKE MILLIONS OF MANY SCHOOLCHILDREN,WHO HAVE BEEN VICTIMS OF IT,FEEL AWFUL,EMBARRASSED,HORRIBLE INSIDE,ANGRY,BITTER,RESENTFUL,REVENGFUL,ANNOYED,CROSS,UNHAPPY,LOWERS INTELLIGENCE AND BREEDS VIOLENCE,WHICH IN TURN IS NEGATIVE AND SELF-DEFEATING.IT CAN MAKE MANY SCHOOLCHILDREN FEEL SCARED,PERPLEXED,APPREHENSIVE,FEARFUL, FRIGHTENED,NERVOUS,ANXIOUS,WORRIED,INTIMIDATED,STRESSED,UPSET,UNEASY AND
DISCONCERTED AND HUMILIATED,SELF-CONCIOUS.I AM,HOWEVER,STEPPING,INTO THEIR OWN SHOES-AND-SKIN,METOPHORICALLY SPEAKING,AND WALKING-AROUND IN IT.I DO,FEEL,HOWEVER,VERY SORRY FOR ANY OF THE VICTIMS,WHO HAVE RECEIVED IT,ON SEVERAL OR MANY OCCASIONS,NO MATTER WHO THEY ACTUALLY ARE.IT IS,BEEN,HOWEVER,TOTALLY,COMPLETELY,-ABOLISHED,BANNED,BANISHED,OUTLAWED,ERADICATED,STAMPTED-OUT OVER HERE IN THE UNITED-KINGDOM-OF-GREAT-BRITAIN AND NORTHERN-IRELAND;-(ULSTER), IN STATE-SCHOOLS,PRIMARY AND SECONDARY AND ALSO IN PRIVATE/INDEPENDENT-PREPARATORY/SECONDARY-SCHOOLS,GRADUALLY OVER A NUMBER OF YEARS AGO,FOR
THE BETTER OF ALL SCHOOLBOYS/SCHOOLGIRLS.THERE IS NOW, A VERY STRONG,"ZERO-TOLERANCE"-POLICY WE HAVE ADOPTED AS A NATION.WITH SCHOOLCHILDREN,AS FAR AS THEIR EDUCATION,LEARNING,SCHOOLING IS CONCERNED,HEADTEACHER'S,TEACHERS,SCHOOL-ADMINISTRATORS,HAVE TO BE FAIR,JUST AND REASONABLE,WITH SCHOOLBOYS AND SCHOOLGIRLS.SO THE ONLY WAY IS ONWARDS,UPWARDS AND FORWARDS.ANY FORM OF CORPORAL-PUNISHMENT/DISCIPLINE CAN MAKE MANY SCHOOLCHILDREN'S LIVES"HELL" AND A
COMPLETE-MISERY,BECAUSE OF THE THREAT OF BEING,BULLIED,RIDICULED,LAUGHED-AT, BEING MADE A FOOL OF,BEING-PICKED-ON,TEASED,NAME-CALLING AND GENERALLY-MADE-FUN-OF IN FRONT OF ALL THEIR OTHER CLASS-STUDENTS,WHICH OF COURSE IS NOT VERY NICE OR PLEASANT.I'VE JUST VBEEN READING AN ATRICLE OR REPORT TODAY,
THAT A FORTNIGHT AGO,A 15 YEAR-OLD SCHOOLGIRL CLSAIMED SHE WAS HIT BY A SCHOOL-OFFICIAL WITH A METAL ROD,AS IT SAYS WRAPPED IN BLACK-TAPE.SHE WAS LEFT WITH INJURIES SUCH AS BLACK-AND-BLUE-BRUISES ON HER RIGHT ARM AND BUTTOCKS.HOWEVER,THIS MATTER,OF ASSAULT, IS NOW UNDER GOING POLICE-
INVESTIGATION,AND EDUCATION-MINISTER,MR.CARL BETHEL WAS QUESTIONING AND
INVESTIGATING THE CLAIM,TO TAKE LEGAL/DISCIPLINARY-ACTION AGAINST THE SCHOOL-OFFICIAL RESPONSIBLE.THIS MATTER SHOULD BE TAKEN BEFORE A COURT OF LAW IN THE UNITED-STATES.THE VICTIM SHOULD BE, AWARDED COMPENSATION,WHICH IS ONLY RIGHT.ALL IT DOES IS,HOWEVER,REINFORCES ANGER,RESENTMENT,GRUDGE-BEARING,HINDERS,HAMPERS AND IMPEDES THEIR EDUCATIONAL-PROGRESS AT SCHOOL.
IT CAUSES,BITTERNESS,HATREDNESS,WHEN SCHOOLCHILDREN ARE BLAMED AND ASHAMED IN THEIR OWN
COMMUNITY,AS A WHOLE,WHENEVER THEY GET ASSUALTED,ABUSED,WHIPPED,WHICH IS HORRIBLE AND UNPLEASANT,WHENEVER THEY GET FOR WHATEVER REASON,GET HIT,BELTED,BEATEN,CHASTISED,PENALISED,PUNISHED,WALLOPED,FLOGGED IN THIS WAY,WHICH IS,BASICALLY, NOT REALLY ON OR ACCEPTABLE IN ANY MODERN-DAY-SOCIETY.IT WANTS TO BE MADE A THING OF THE PAST,URGENTLY AND VERY-QUICKLY.
I,THINK ENOUGH HAS BEEN SAID OR MENTIONED ABOUT THIS SOCIAL-EVIL OR VICE,AND
DANGEROUS-PRACTICE OR TACTIC.IN MANY WAYS,HOWEVER,IT IS NOT A VIRTUE.IT DOES,NOT HOWEVER,REALLY IMPROVE ANY SCHOLCHILDREN'S CONDUCT OR BEHAVIOUR,IN ANY CIRCUMSTANCES,WHATEVER-THE-
WEATHER,NO MATTER WHO THEY ACTUALLY ARE,AND WHEREVER THEY ARE.
YOURS FAITHFULLY,
SIGNED;-MR.G.M.MENEELY,
"!HIGHTREES",18,
CHESTNUT-GROVE,
OWL-END,
GREAT-STULKELEY,
HUNTINGDON,
CAMBRIDGESHIRE.
ENGLAND,(U.K.).
EMAIL-ADDRESS;-MERVANDENID@HOTMAIL.CO.UK
HOME-TELEPHONE-NO;- + 44 (01480)-413185.
(NEW-WORLD-CAMPAIGNER-AGANIST THE USE OF/ANY FORM OF
(CORPORAL--PUNISMENT USED OR ADMINISTERED IN AMERICAN,ELEMENTARY,
MIDDLE AND PUBLIC/HIGH-SCHOOLS,E.T.C..
Posted By: James Forbes On: 5/19/2010
Title: Some thoughts
He did not say corporal punishment shouldn't be used. He said that it should not be used without 1) telling the child what they did wrong, 2) having the child apologise, and 3) telling what behaviour is expected of them in the future. Do those three things, then feel free to cut hip. But giving a beating just because the child did something that made you mad will not improve their behaviour.
And I agree with what he said about corporal punishment for older children. If beating didn't get them to drop the stink attitude when they were 6-10, it won't work when they are 13 and older. At that point, it's time to change tactics. I am a firm believer in beating the fresh out of disrespectful child, but it has to be done when they are young enough to be trained.
Posted By: jane doe On: 5/18/2010
Title: walk in a teacher's shoe
cp is only administered after all other avenues have been exhausted. counselling, parent teacher conferences, and other disciplinary actions are taken before cp. cp is the last resort!
Posted By: zero tolerance to any violence. On: 5/12/2010
Title: time to move onwards and upwards TOGETHER
People are blaming the children for their behavior saying the deserve a cut ass but who is raising them? its a proven fact that hitting children lowers intelligence and breeds violence. parents need to be educated, if kids don't know right from wrong its the parents who are to blame. Thats why kids are bringing weapons to schools because hitting and punching is so normal they need to take it to the next level.
Posted By: Amused On: 5/5/2010
Title: LOL
I just graduated from high school and I can assure you that unless you beat these kids to death, they will never get the message, this generation is ruthless, they don't give a crap about anyone. Even parents who swear for their kids have NO idea who their kids really are. TRUST me, I know what I'm talking about. Beat these kids at home and beat them in schools. Otherwise the future is doomed.
Posted By: Bay Street On: 5/3/2010
Title: Response
Are there teachers and school officials walking around school hitting students for no reason? I left high school fours years ago, and the few times CP was administered on me I knew exactly what I did wrong. Normally on the first day of school/orientation, students are made aware of infractions they should not participate in. Does Mr. Brennen expect us to have a 4 counselling session with students as to why they are being disciplined?
I do agree with him that CP isn't the only means of disciplinary action. And teachers need to educated on alternative ways on disciplining students. However, for some of these students (due to them developing so fast), the only thing they fear/will respond to, is a good wailing.
Mr. Brennen mentioned this 15 yr old student, as I don't know the outcome of that investigation. My question would be, what did the student do that required the school official involvement? what is the procedures for executing CP - 2 or 3 cuts on the buttocks? was it a metal rod used? Why is the bruise on the student arms, did the official act out of line or was the student fighting back? These are all questions that I hope was asked.
Mr. Brennen does highlight that we as a country need to utilize other forms of punishment and I commend him for that.
And please Bahamas, stop comparing us to other countries! We can look at other countries as a reference, but just cause one country is or isn't doing something, doesn't mean we should follow them. I sometimes feel as if we see ourselves as inferior individuals who are not creative or innovative. We can produce our own Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, Warren Buffets and Sam Zells.
Posted By: bobdoal On: 5/1/2010
Title: these educated bahamians kill me
what we have here is another "educated" bahamian who thinks he knows what he is talking about , these schools need to cut these children arse, many of these kids have no morals and do not want to develop morals, that is why there arse needs to b cut, forget the sit down and talk, do you think they are listening, you can tell the kids who have potential and dont but most of these kids needs there arses cut, and stop all of this sugar honey ice tea about surveys in us say this and that, seem reason why tommy say the roads need to b one way now, because of the studies done in the us, what studies tommy
Posted By: Chris On: 4/12/2010
Title: Teacher of 40 years
I would love these degree saturated, opinionated outsiders to spend a few weeks trying to sit down and communicate with some of our students. He would soon change his mind.Funny how these new fangled ideas usually come from persons NOT in the classroom.
Posted By: For What it is Worth On: 4/6/2010
Title: Complete Argument Missed
Whereas, 1. Corporal Punishment (CP) is an entrenched aspect of the way we practice life in The Bahamas; 2. CP appears to be an effective means to control and direct our children; and 3. CP will remain an alternative within the schools as a means of managing up approved behaviour with immediacy; I suggest Mr. Brennen's argument is sound.
It would appear that his central idea was missed by most reactions to his post. As I re-read it to see if i missed something I noted the following. 1) Mr. Brennen advocates that CP, when used, be accompanied by "reasoning", so that the recipient is made aware of the "why" of the action. 2) Mr. Brennen argues that the apparent rise in violence in response to the removal of CP has a direct link to a deficiency is transitionary training for teachers/administrators on behalf of the governing agency for education. 3) CP is an element of the disciplinary system that is utilized in socializing children in Bahamian Society. 4) CP as the primary means of correction should be ceased at age 16. 5) Mr. Brennen is a Bahamian who is regionally/internationally certified; i.e. he is qualified to practice in The Bahamas and US. And finally in conclusion, Mr. Brennen advances that CP is only one component of a discipline system and that it should not be the ONLY component.
I find it interesting that when law enforcement utilizes physical force to "punish" suspects, or when physical force is utilized to resolve conflicts among adults, or when a spouse or partner uses physical force to "reprimand" or "punish" their spouse/partner for breaking the rules of their covenant, there is protest.
This apparent double standard is the world we are producing for our children to populate, emulate, and re-produce. Apparently there is a time when physical force as a deterrent is non longer appropriate.
As to the Biblical arguments I will respectfully refrain from commenting as that is a discussion in and of itself. To sum up, I will use the words of fellow poster R. Thompson, "...our whole system of justice in our homes, communities and country is to blame." If we have been doing the same thing over and over and over again, and there is not change, why do we now expect a change? If what worked for our fore parents do not seem to be working now, why do we cling so nostalgically to it? If we have replicated the systems of the past and we still have the problems, why are we not examining them that selecting that which works and discarding that which does not?
Posted By: Donovan Thompson On: 4/5/2010
Title: He crazy
Typical American. He mussy never get his behind cut. I guarantee if you keep getting beaten for doin something wrong, you gonna get the idea. Or, you gonna keep gettin it and at that point, if you don't know to change, then u deserve it. Let the people in the US keep their methods for discipline. I am married to an american and she talks to her mom in ways that I would prolly get punch in my mouth even at 26 years old talkin to mine. Americans don't have the real family values as in the islands. We're much closer to family and even teachers in school. My parents knew the dean of my school and if he didnt beat me in school, he could have prolly called one of them and they would have came and did it in school for him. Trust me.
Posted By: MAD AS HELL On: 3/30/2010
Title: INSANE
THIS MAN IS CRAZY. I TEACH AT A SCHOOL THAT DO NOT PUNISH. THE PRIMARY SCHOOL CHILDREN THERE BELIEVE THEY ARE ON THE SAME LEVEL WITH ADULTS.A FRIEND TOLD ME AT HER SCHOOL SHE SPANKS LIKE ALL TEACHERS THERE. HER STUDENTS GET NO LESS THAN 80% ON THEIR EXAMS .MINE SIT COMFORTABLE WITH A 38%. SPANKING DID NOT KILL US. THAT'S WHY THESE CHILDREWN TAKING OVER. BRENNEN GO AND SIT DOWN.
Posted By: Kendrick Chrisite On: 3/7/2010
Title: Liberalism
Corporal punishment is an option and should be used in specific cases and under rigid guidelines. We need to be very careful about the liberalism and taking of a USA approach to our culture which has it's nuances and uniqueness. Everyone knows teachers are battling in these schools, with students who have no home training, are sexually active, distracted by cellphones and facebook, are violent and threatening. ( I am generalizing of course). After all of this, this gentleman and I do respect his views, is out there weeping and crying for relief from corporal punishment. Please. He should be focusing on other ways we can help these teachers and these students. Most students dont experience the corporal punishment.
In his own words, he says corporal punishment has a positive impact. Folks, it is a real world out there, frankly I believe in the "lean on me" movie approach, keep the good students in school, the ones who want to learn and those students who are consistently bad and always fighting etc. , release them and have them enroll in technical schools or in other institutions, so they dont hinder other students from learning. My dad was a principal and he has folks walking up to him all the time saying" I am glad you beat me", sometimes, this is the only option that gets their attention. If they old enough to get beat at home, they could get beaten at school.
Posted By: Inquiring Mind On: 2/22/2010
Title: Corporal Punishment
There is nothing wrong with corporal punishment in my opinion. As a child I understood when my grandmother spoke and growing up she used the rod of correction without fail after speaking. While it may have hurt for a brief period of time, she instilled in me the very fabric of what a civilized society requires from each law abiding citizen. Her words were both understandable and fair. She used beating as a last resort but did not pull back that beating when required. In my opinion corporal punishment is both warranted and needed within the school system. However, teachers must use this method with discretion and not spank children when angry or have not used alternative methods to correct misbehaviour. I have told my son that any adult who during the course of day observes him acting inappropriately or rudely towards another person or another person’s property, has the authority to spank him, and he is to tell me the moment he sees me of the spanking. At the moment he tells me, I then decide whether the punishment was warranted in my opinion (after talking to him is excess, to see if his story ‘holds water’), then its either another beating for acting in that manner (as my grandmother did to me when an adult told her of any infraction I committed) or I would have to tell talk to the offending adult about the issue.
Posted By: Sean On: 2/13/2010
Title: Ultimate Sense
"God" and "The Bible" are significantly valid "documents" in a Bahamian forum. They represent the foundation of most, if not all Bahamian thought and culture. What is extremely rare in the Bahamas is a lack of appreciation for the latter. Consequently, since this website is an electronic extension of Bahamian news media, "God" and "The Bible" have its rightful place.
Posted By: Common On: 2/11/2010
Title: Sense
a) The idea of 'god' and 'the bible' all being used as justification is ridiculous, there is an unbelievably large amount of evidence proving the falsification of both documents, and the existence of god. So to make this argument valid, any religious beliefs will be ignored.
b)Low IQs are linked to CP because people with low IQs are the ones who tend to be in those positions. Genetics have been linked to more aggressive behavior, and tendencies to cause more trouble is a side affect. (for more explanation, just research genetics)
c)I have been on the receiving end of CP, and in retrospect, i have found it works, and should be continued for the foreseeable future, as i'm now currently in boarding school in england, I can notice the difference in both behavior and respect towards teachers, never mind strangers. Inevitably there are exceptions, however the issue of behavior is far worse without CP.
d) I do agree though, that it should be regulated, and that whomever is receiving the CP should understand why beforehand.
Posted By: Kish On: 2/6/2010
Title: Corporal Punishment
Train up a child in the way he should grow," is self explanatory. A child should not grow up thinking that it is okay to whip another human. If we as adults should not beat each other, what message do we send our children (regarding "the way he should grow") when we beat them? There are other alternatives.
Further, when an adult beats another adult someone goes to jail, so why would we want to teach our children that a beating is the only resolution to a problem? You might as well teach them that stealing is also an acceptable form of punishment as neither violence or theft is an acceptable form of behavior in a civilized adult society.
The other part of the scripture i quoted states "that when he is old, he should not depart." It makes perfect sense to me then that some people now justify beating a child, or adult (as evidenced by the present rise in violent crime) because they never "departed" from what happened to them when they were children.
I think the ideology that corporal punishment is necessary comes from a slave/master mentality and not the word of God. Additionally, if beatings worked, slavery would still exist because we would have "listened" when we felt.
I urge the readers of this blog to be objective rather than just "go with the flow" with everything our parents did. We must know that our parents, who may have meant well, were human beings who may have erred.
Again, we must train our children on how to be responsible and law abiding adults. We must do this by example.
Posted By: B. Turnquest On: 1/24/2010
Title: Corporal Punishment
There is a saying that I often heard when either myself or one of my cousins were about to catch a cut hip, "If you don't listen, you ga feel". This statement is very relevant to corporal punishment in our schools as it encompasses an important fact. Beating (or spanking) should be a last measure when all other avenues of communication have failed. The fact of the matter is some people, young and old, while they might hear what you are saying are unable to comprehend it because they are not LISTENING. In situations such as that, which often occur within the school environment, a more tactile approach is often far more effective. As with all things, moderation as well as caution is necessary but I believe that the administration of CP is necessary in our schools. As for the comment about the study linking CP to lower IQs: I suspect the low IQs led to the CP, not the other way around.
Posted By: Glenn On: 1/6/2010
Title: Corporal Punishment
Mr. Barrington Brennen is a out of touch excuse for a Psychologist. He needs to spend a day in a public senior high school and I can assure him he would be confronted with reality and could see for himself why it cant be abolished.
Posted By: Max Davis On: 12/23/2009
Title: Corporal punishment
We must be very careful when we decide to copy other people's method and inject them into our life style. The neighbour to the west of us is having all sorts of problem with its young people because it has spare the rod. I am for corporal punishment in the schools and in the home. Corporal punishment does not equal child abuse. Before corporal punishment is administered the child must have been forewarned that such will be the consequence for such action if he or she commits such act. The children today have no fear because there is no consequence for their negative behaviour, I am not talking about Time out or taking away Privileges. Are we to wait until our children commit a serios crime and sent to jail before we realize that we have failed our child/children by spating the rod.
Think about these things.
Posted By: Raphael Thompson On: 12/20/2009
Title: Corporal Punishment
What psychological component in days gone by? Not in my family. You got licked up side your head and that was that. Yes violence in schools escalated due to the fact that students and parents now realise that classroom teachers are helpless to their rudeness and some parents never wanted their precious child to receive corporal punishment. Corporal punishment must be a part of our school system as it is a part of our home system but must be done consistently and fairly. There are some actions for which students must realise that there are serious consequences:biting, fighting, carrying or using weapons, sexual molestation, etc.There was a child who just walked up to another child and slapped their teeth out because his friend told him to do it. Did I cut his hip and the child who told him to do it? The big problem with corporal punishment is its use for petty infractions in schools, which I disagree with totally. While I was principal at Palmdale Primary I punished students for coming late until one morning a magistrate brought a student to school who he had struck down while driving to work. I asked the boy why he just ran across the street and he said that he did it so that he did not get beating for coming late. I discontinued that practice.
Our Government is not to blame, our whole system of justice in our homes, communities and country is to blame. Badness is still glorified and rewarded at times. If you want to use the Bible look at when Jesus himself got fed up and drove the sellers out of the house of the Lord. Corporal punishment is justified.
Posted By: Kish On: 12/20/2009
Title: Good Work
Thank you Mr Brennen for expounding on what is child abuse in the schools. Some of the comments that followed this article appear to have been submitted by a few seriously ignorant people with a computer. Their demise perhaps the result of being child abuse victims or perpetrators themselves. How dare anyone dismiss a little civil dialogue and instead favor of a vicious beating for not doing homework? I think it insults God when people suggest that His word somehow condones child abuse. Was it not Jesus who said "suffer the little children to come unto me"
Posted By: renaldo On: 11/25/2009
Title: too smart! Rom 1:22
i find it amazing that the society where mr Brennen recieved his training is graphling with much more severe problems than we are and yet he holds them up as if we are supposed to emulate their failures and GODless character. whenever you begin to believe that you know more than GOD's word teaches, you are already doomed to fail. Our problems began with disobedience and pride and every quick fix we try continues to leave us wanting, it is time to get back to basics and what we know worked, i vote for GOD everytime, HE has never and will never fail!
Posted By: Angelo On: 10/25/2009
Title: Brennen
I do not wish this but I wonder what Brennen would say if one of these darlings who do not get beat grows up and rape his wife in front of him? Or if they raped him instead. Brennen is an educated j^^&((
Posted By: Angelo On: 10/25/2009
Title: Brennen
I guess Brennen is saying that he is right and God is wrong. Let us go a step further. End capiatal punishment and sto locking people up in those smelly and small prison cells. Why punsih wrong doing as it is barbaric?
Posted By: Stanley Jackson Sr. On: 10/24/2009
Title: God Was Wrong?
Proverbs 13 verse 24 says "The one holding back the rod is hating his son". Barrington Brennen, a minister and nationally certified psychologist in the United States says God was wrong. Other ministers say the death penalty for murder as dictated by God is also wrong and homosexuals or lesbians in the pulpit is yet another area where God is wrong. No wonder the Bahamas and the world is in such a mess. Wisdom and teaching of men has surpassed that of GOD!
Posted By: Nadine Block On: 10/6/2009
Title: End Physical Punishment of Children
Thank you for bringing attention to the barbaric practice of hitting children in schools. The practice can lead to physical injury as well as alienation from school and psychological trauma. A recent study in the U.S. (Berlin @ et al) linked corporal punishment to lower IQ's and more aggressiveness. Research overwhelmingly shows that corporal punishment is harmful. Talking with children works better. When they grow up, we want our children to have learned to use words, not hitting, to solve problems.
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