The Tribune

By DEIDRE BASTIAN

True leadership is not a popularity contest. The very decisions that make a manager effective are sometimes the same decisions that make that manager unpopular.

There is an uncomfortable truth about leadership that many companies are reluctant to acknowledge: A new, effective manager will not always be welcomed, appreciated or even liked. In fact, the more determined a manager is to introduce meaningful change, enforce accountability and improve performance, the greater the resistance they may encounter.

Why? Because change is rarely comfortable, particularly for those who have grown accustomed to the familiar. When a new manager assumes office, expectations are often high. Staff anticipate fresh ideas, improved working conditions and renewed direction. However, when that manager begins challenging established practices, confronting poor performance, enforcing deadlines and demanding accountability, enthusiasm can quickly turn into resentment.

Suddenly, the manager is labelled difficult, arrogant, insensitive or unreasonable. Those who previously operated without scrutiny may feel threatened. Employees who benefited from preferential treatment may become uncomfortable when fairness and consistency replace favouritism. And individuals who have mastered the art of doing just enough may find themselves confronted by expectations they would rather avoid.

But should managers compromise standards simply to remain popular? Absolutely not.  Effective management requires courage, consistency, emotional intelligence and, above all, integrity. It demands the willingness to make difficult decisions, address uncomfortable truths and place company objectives above personal relationships. Leadership is not about winning a popularity contest; it is about creating an environment where people, processes and performance can thrive.

By the same token, there is an important distinction between being an effective manager and simply being an authoritarian one. High standards must be accompanied by fairness. Discipline must be balanced with compassion. Accountability must apply to everyone, including the manager. Employees deserve to be heard, respected and treated with dignity.

A manager should never mistake intimidation for authority or opposition for proof of success. Not every criticism is jealousy, and not every disagreement is insubordination. True leadership requires the humility to listen, the wisdom to reflect and the courage to admit when a decision is wrong.

Ultimately, the true measure of a new manager is not how many people applaud their arrival, but what they accomplish during their tenure. Did productivity improve? Did accountability become stronger? Were corporate weaknesses addressed? Did employees become more capable, and did the institution move forward?

Perhaps the greatest paradox of leadership is this: The manager who refuses to be popular at the expense of progress may eventually earn the respect that popularity alone could never guarantee.

As a result, leadership does not promise being liked by everyone. It is about having the courage to do what is right, even when doing so makes you the least popular person in the room. Until we meet again, live life for memories rather than regrets. Enjoy life and stay on top of your game. 

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About columnist: Deidre M. Bastian is a brand marketing analyst, graphic designer, international award-winning author and certified life coach.