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We must take more offence whenever we hear the N word

EDITOR, The Tribune

It will take a stretch of credulity to try and make the case that Bahamians are inherently racist. Black, brown, white or any hue in between, we are wedded to the principle of equality.

But to hear some Bahamians speak, one can be forgiven for thinking that we have deep issues of self-acceptance or we are just tone-deaf to external events.

Some of us have a fascination with and complete detachment from the use of the so-called N word in even our most mundane or congenial conversations.

What’s more, there is a sick pathology associated with our casual familiarity with the N word. Too many of us use it in front of family just as easily and freely as we do strangers.

Grandparents use it. Parents use it. Students use it all too frequently. And, most unfortunately, children use it with reckless abandon. It is learned speech and it is as wrong as it is offensive.

Worse still, few people cringe or take offence at the use of the word. It is so commonplace that it can be dropped multiple times in a single sentence.

While Bahamians generally sympathize with the US-led global Black Lives Matter movement, its very message of respect and dignity seems to have been lost in the fifty-mile gulfstream between our two countries.

This is sad, given the fact that many Bahamians can trace their ancestry back to enslaved people in the United States. We are as true-true Gullah in Andros as the people in the low country of South Carolina.

Just because some people want to appropriate the word as a term of endearment, they don’t get the right to determine who gets to show them that twisted kind of verbal love. Don’t plant corn and expect peas.

The etymology of the N word shows that while its use has been expanded by the off-spring of its original target, Negro slaves in the New World, it still remains a deeply offensive word meant to degrade a whole race of people.

Talk about black people appropriating the word and thereby lessening its sting smacks of a gross double standard. That word was at times tantamount to a death sentence or at best cruel and inhumane treatment.

Saying it with a smile or using it to address a trusted friend or lover doesn’t cleanse it of its history.

Perhaps the only way we are going to scrub this word from our vernacular is if more of us start calling people out on its use. If more people would take offence to the next N word infused tirade they hear, then slowly we might be able to banish the word from public conversation.

This is going to be a hard sell to do in private conversation because so much of the imported popular culture is laced with the N word. Rap music, originally a poetic art form with intricate lyrics that tell of love interests or social injustice, has evolved to become a principal medium for spewing the N word with reckless abandon.

Hollywood turned its back on homophobia and xenophobia in rap music and quickly it got scrubbed from the lyrics. But too many people are comfortable with a word that was often the last one some ancestors heard before a noose tightened on their neck.

With the advent of social media and the ability for even the most mundane local video to go global, our liberal use of the N word could backfire and hit us in the pocketbook. So-called “woke” people may not want to vacation in a place so apparently verbally racist. Even though we are not intrinsically racist.

To some this will sound like nit-picking, but as any builder will tell you, it is often neglect of the smallest detail that gradually leads to the destruction of the whole house.

It is true that the N word is often preceded by the equally cringe-worthy F bomb. The F bomb is an equal opportunity symbol of vulgarity. The N word is a blaspheme aimed solely at the heart of one race of people.

It took the unschooled linguistic genius of a previous generation of Bahamians whose ultimate put down was to call someone and old “so-and-so”.

THE GRADUATE

Nassau,

August 16, 2020

Comments

GodSpeed 3 years, 8 months ago

As long as they are singing it in rap songs it's going nowhere.

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tribanon 3 years, 8 months ago

In a perverse way it's mainly underprivileged black americans and black american entertainment artists that have perpetuated the use of the 'N' word, largely because they believe it to be a word that only they (and no other ethic group) can use to describe themselves. Many believe the attraction for its more pervasive use by black american artists lies in their perceived notion that they enjoy an exclusive right to its use. And we all know about the significant influence black american culture has had on our own culture here in The Bahamas.

I'm okay politely telling someone "I wish you would refrain from using that word", but I'm certainly not going to war with anyone over their use of it. Why would I want to give anyone the satisfaction of a war they just might wish to have? Besides, its always better to take the high road and simply lead by example, i.e. not use the word.

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stillwaters 3 years, 8 months ago

Bahamians use the N word amongst themselves .......almost as much as they use the F word.

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