The Tribune

EDITOR, The Tribune.

These past few years have put a strain upon our life styles, personal routines and outlook upon life in general. The Pandemic seems to have stolen all of the world’s energy, taking from us many who have helped build this world, from both family and neighbours alike. The many movements we have seen grow in importance such as Black Lives Matter and Climate Change Response have become less significant once one looks at the horrors of this pandemic.

We have changed. This is a fact. Somehow each of us has been forced by circumstance to respond to that which we have no control over, whether it be life threatening or simple ways of looking at our attitudes about life. This challenge has made us look within, scrutinising ourselves like never before, possibly realising we have a power within that can change ourselves and the world around us.

I have become aware of my relationship with “stuff” and this “stuff” impacts upon me and my world. I looked around me and found that many of my possessions were there, and I simply did not use them. Decorations, mementos, clothing never worn. I thought about how I’d respond to this realisation. What to do? Whatever I decided may not be so easy. I remembered my trips to Europe, visiting many homes that appeared to be lacking in furniture, pictures on the wall. Where was their “stuff”? The concept of “Minimalism” came to mind. Living your life simply. Experiencing each day while not relying upon “stuff” to enhance it.

1) I became mindful of the way I used time, my money and my space.. Shopping was no longer a commonplace pastime for me. Since I have a lot of “stuff” already, why did I need more? I seemed to have an impulse to buy things I really did not need. If I declutter, I may find for myself more time, money and space. If I did not need any more furniture, made due with my operating appliances and vehicle, I found more room in my home. Since I stopped buying the newest brand or gadget, my money was invested in the mortgage and future (RRSP). I substituted things with experiences. My family outings became more frequent and enjoyable. I found my funds lasted longer too. I was able to savour my time more and in different ways too. Spending more time with the family, or a hobby instead of walking the halls of some mall.

2) Became more mindful of how brainwashed we are by advertising and marketing firms. Our system of values is completely skewed by consumerism, often not realising what is truly important and necessary to us in the first place. We accept this system without question. Advertising leads our minds towards consumption, enslaving us all. Things enslave us, demanding that we work longer, harder to acquire these prizes. Avoiding exposure to advertising seems to be virtually impossible, but if you look at your situation with new eyes, you may see the trap you are being placed into. Corporations and governments are telling you what you really want and need, and it is costing you money, effort and time.

3) I became mindful of my true needs. Ever look about you and see the “stuff” you have not used for some time, things that are taking up space? Realising what your true wants are, and that which you truly need frees you. What is truly meaningful to you?

4) Mindful of my health, the planet and community too. I am over 60 years old, and have become quite active. Having more time has allowed me the opportunity to cycle with my neighbours, volunteer at a local charity, spend time cleaning up an area around my favourite park and pond. I could now buy better things that I truly need. I like beef, but the cost of all food stuffs has skyrocketed. Noticed? Stop buying “wants”, and substituting “needs, allowed me to buy things to eat, listen to and enjoy once restricted due to lack of funds. I have become much more mindful of nature, hiking, fishing, camping and restricting my travels to local adventures too. Gas prices are just crazy these days, so my family and I just walk, cycle or take the bus.

5) I have become very mindful of my relationships. My Family, spouse, new and old neighbours, fellow employees are all part of my social network, and I realised that with the time allotted me, I could develop and enrich my relationships. Instead of impressing others with the latest brand or thing, I can feel good about myself and others too, having fun experiencing my new life.

Sometimes less is better. What do you think?

STEVEN KASZAB

Bradford,

Ontario, Canada.

May 1, 2022.