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‘We need new mindset to end abuse’

ZONTA members outside the House of Assembly yesterday, along with a Rotary Club member marking “16 Days of Activism to End Violence Against Women and Girls”.

ZONTA members outside the House of Assembly yesterday, along with a Rotary Club member marking “16 Days of Activism to End Violence Against Women and Girls”.

By KHRISNA RUSSELL

Tribune Chief Reporter

krussell@tribunemedia.net

PRIME Minister Philip “Brave” Davis says Bahamians must work to break the glass ceiling in society that condones acts of sexual and physical violence against women and children.

While expressing his support for the Zonta Club, which is observing 16 days of activism in the fight against domestic violence on children and women, Mr Davis said there was a level of embarrassment attached to certain acts against these groupings of society that have been hidden in the closet.

He said men must take the lead on speaking out on this kind of injustice.

“More has to happen insofar as the voice of men are concerned in speaking to and about gender violence,” Mr Davis said in Parliament yesterday.

“I think we have to accept that there are some cultural issues that attend to this that’s (a) deep rooted (problem) that might require a whole resetting of the mindset and attitude of men and women because if they don’t speak up, we will not know.

“Very often they are content to just live in the circumstance they find themselves when they don’t necessarily have to.”

Mr Davis pointed to his time as a magistrate when he presided over matters of abuse on women and children.

“I know about it. I recall being on the bench as a magistrate and children reporting their fathers to the police and the wife or the girlfriend chastising and punishing the child for doing so. There is some embarrassment attending to these facts, but we have to rise above that now. We have to find ways and means to encourage men to speak out, women to speak out and that is one way we’ll get it done.”

He alluded to another situation in which a father said he was simply “checking” his daughter because she came home late from school.

“…They found that as acceptable. The mother found it as acceptable too when in fact that was a cultural practice.

“…That’s the kind of glass ceiling that still has to be broken in this society today.”

Mr Davis said he firmly supported the efforts of those who speak out against violence against children and women, adding there had to also be a resetting of the words— whether in jest or not—that are used to refer to women.

When she spoke on the issue, Education, Technical and Vocational Training Minister Glenys Hanna Martin said that The Bahamas had some of the highest rates of violence against women in the world.

She expressed a view that men also needed a voice in the debate on marital rape in order to steer proper national discussion.

For his part, newly sworn in Official Opposition leader Michael Pintard said in days gone by sexual predators were not dealt with harshly, adding that young men needed to be taught to see young women in a positive light. He also echoed his calls for the criminalisation of marital rape, saying there were many instances by which a woman could decide that she did not want to engage with her husband intimately.

Comments

carltonr61 2 years, 4 months ago

I am surprised that these learned women lack any relavent data from national institutions. A breakdown of data will show actual marriage, separated,years of marriage and other demographic factors. This is the only way to pinpoint average harms conditions then intervene. Just lumping unscientific splattering over violence and abuse is patently lazy and does more harm than good.

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carltonr61 2 years, 4 months ago

Harms against women is the most frequent problem gambling (PG) harm. Need for spinning money addiction is primary to physical abuse. A Gambling Council probably would reveal a commonality between listed registered gambling abusers and dysfunctional relationships. If Public Health, Gambling Education, PG, Gambling Harms and Treatments Options were considered as stakeholders rather than collecting another means of government taxes from the poor homes and civility would not be under threat. Banks as socioeconomic Institutions leaving outer settlements, major island and the city smells of a national disease of civil decay. Many women endure and expose themselves to hellish abuse and victimization due to financial stress caused by gambling and subtle sex trade.

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carltonr61 2 years, 4 months ago

About 70% of humans probably are guilty at one time of violence ideailation or simple speak out "Girl/boy I will kill so and so if....." Lacking hard data on actual abuse is untrustworthy but say about 20% because the Police either don't receive the calls, some are fake and some are real,but most are forgiven. Of the- -.005% that actually transcends into murder they are mostly spontaneous acts of rage events and not among reported actual abuse or violent idealists. Persons who have acted out violence previously probably are recorded in the National System and could be monitered or supervised but the expectation is that they their behavior would continue.

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stillwaters 2 years, 4 months ago

I am trying to understand how these ministers posing for a photo will stop about five or more women from getting a cutass today from their significant other.

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carltonr61 2 years, 4 months ago

Show us the hard data area of abuse that needs targeting. That way we can help. 200% of men are totally innocent with most baring emotional scars. What percentage of women suffer bipolar events and need council, a relic from their screaming moms. With what % of couples come from totally dysfunctional families? 95%. Before blame we need data.

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carltonr61 2 years, 4 months ago

The greatest violence against women and the family is gambling. The need for education on this matter is of grave concern. They are gambling before they feed their children.

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